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Prem Chand Surana's avatar

As I understand we have to Compromise at every walk of life like in family, in your job / profession / business , in your social circle/ groups of friends etc.

Hence I think केवल शादी या पति/ पत्नी के साथ समाधान करना और केवल इस कारण शादी नहीं करना या अविवाहित रहना ठीक नहीं समझ में आता हैं ।

We have to adjust everywhere.

As human is a social animal .

I may be wrong though.

Kindly share your thoughts/ view to my personal e mail : pcsurana12@gmail.com

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Aditya Ray's avatar

is this really all so logical though ?

i mean when i want human connection

it's less for a logical list of pros and cons

but rather just a emotional desire to feel connected

logic comes later after that,

so my question is, do you never feel lonely or anything?

especially when you see others,

those in a happy marriage or relationship?

and what are your plans for surviving old age alone

without a partner to accompany you

not judging, i am just curious,

because being young, i myself often

struggle with the question of marriage.

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Nishtha Gehija's avatar

1. Forget partner, no one would even like their friends to accompany them just because "they are bored".

2. what about hte loneliness WHILE being with someone?

3. no never felt so looking at "happy marriages" because I have always asked them so many questions that I know I do not want to make those compromises

4. I go to a spiritual class daily, that is my rock, something that makes sure I have a community around

5. that said, you do you. it's a quest of finding out what works for you.

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paradox's avatar

I think I disagree with almost everything here, but fun read. Thanks for writing.

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